How come all tops ‘use and abuse’ the butts of bottoms just like me?

How come all tops ‘use and abuse’ the butts of bottoms just like me?

I’m a 29-year-old homosexual man residing in California. What makes many tops such assholes? I’ve had an abundance of intimate lovers ranging in age, ethnicity, and expressed orientation that is sexual. But exactly what unites all of them is an over-all callousness toward bottoms and sometimes even a pleasure into the knowledge it is they whom have to “use and abuse” bottoms.

Is it a cultural artifact? We discover the idea of putting another person in pain for my pleasure so repulsive that We have yet to top anybody. Continue reading